Of cheating & infedility

Posted: January 21, 2008 in Uncategorized

Recent studies indicate that males are more likely to engage in adulterous activity for the sexual experience only, than are women. Although this is not a rule, we do see more instances of men cheating on their wives purely for the physical act of sex. These men are more likely to have a relationship with any willing female and to allow that relationship to end quickly or immediately than are women. Women committing adultery tend to initiate an affair for some “greater purpose” than lust. A woman can find a man for sex any time they want to whereas a man cannot always find a woman willing to have sex with him. These types of cheating men will often have more interest in the physical aspect of the relationship and tend not to get as emotionally attached to their cheating partner in the affair as women do. Experts say that unlike women who undoubtedly fantasize about extracurricular romance but who are able to separate that fantasy from reality; men are more likely to be unable to distinguish between “mental longings” and physical transgressions, many times not realizing the true scope of what they are doing until it’s too late.


~~Quote of the day~~~

Let not the sands of time get in your lunch

National Lampoon, “Deteriorata”
  1. super says:


  2. Wanja says:

    Ati recent studies? mmmmh where have these researchers been? At this age and time mamas have also ingiad the no-strings attached sex plots aka booty calls aka CFAs

  3. Bomseh says:

    Discuss? How many marks for creativity and credibility? The Sexpert is back!

  4. bryjoe says:

    true story.i would elaboarate but i don’t see how i can do that without incrimninating myself 😉
    happy nu year resident sexpert!

  5. Kirima says:

    “many times not realizing the true scope of what they are doing until it’s too late”
    If ever there was a deniability clause it would be the above. Ati Sikuwa najua ninafanya nini! Selling that one will be an uphill task.
    Welcome back our resident sexpert.

  6. aegeus says:

    yaani you are saying that me, as a man may think that all i am getting is laid but then some “stray” feelings of attachment to the illicit – for lack of a better term – woman start forming and shortly you wacha the licit mama for the one you were cheating on her with?

  7. 3N says:

    its not our fault, we realize when its way too late….if only women could understand

    we are handicapped

  8. threetypesofcrazy says:

    @ 3N you are a clown.atii lack of foresight is now a handicap.

    @aegeus- your question is confusing- ebu jitete vizuri!!!!

    @xs- guess whose back, lol and still missing in action is………..

  9. archer says:

    @3TOC: usijali, niko hapa hapa tuu! Off to re-read.

  10. sultrynutter says:

    `A woman can find a man for sex any time they want to whereas a man cannot always find a woman willing to have sex with him’

    yeah right?! that right there is TOTAL BS… There is always a mama out there wanting to sleep with a guy .. some of them have to be paid but they will do it!

  11. Gishungwa says:

    Am with sultry nutter. Still as a woman do i really want ot have sex with just anybody, there must be more….

    3n, LOL @ handicapped.

  12. Zack says:

    I will concur with Wanja on those CFA manenoz…Things have turned around, atleast in my understanding and there is much more need for sexual satisfaction than emotional attachment. That would make the recent studies… So, in my understanding… Can there be cheating/ infidelity without a constant relationship and with the preference of booty calls aka CFA’s?

  13. modoathii says:


    you never disappoint. just hwere the heck have i been…

    hmmmmmm! lakini swings both ways, as wanja says. as for gish there right there is what he was saying…”affair”….

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